We ask RESCU’s expert Psychic, Bella Gill, why do we feel an instant connection or repulsion when we meet people for the first time? Do first ‘gut’ impressions really count or are these feelings best tempered with ‘thought’?
We are sensitive beings, even when we are unaware that we’re doing it, we are picking up on what’s happening around us.
For example what does it mean when we feel a huge attraction or repulsion to someone? Are we making it all up in our heads, or is there more to it?? There’s more to it…
Feeling a strong connection to someone you have never met can mean a past life connection, you know that thing where you really feel like you know the person but you’ve never met? Well, believe me you’ve met! in fact, you might have even gone as far as to have been married or family members, dear friends. In some way, you have shared a bond.
(P.S,it isnt always a good one, hence the other topic of revuslion, we’ll get to that next!)
I had an experience like this recently, (connection not revulsion) I was walking down a busy city street in Melbourne and I looked up and locked eyes with this man,it was intense,and in that second I was convinced I knew him, or rather that was what my energy said, but I had no idea how?? Hello, past life connection!!
It felt really strong, and I was confused for a second, my next thought was to turn around and go after him, which quite frankly shocked me, because although this may sound like me having a Bold and the beautiful moment, I can guarentee you, I’m not someone who chases people I dont know up the street! Well not yet anyway…
So there you go, connection…
Now for his buddy , Revulsion…
Funny thing really because the same applies, you walk into a room, and there is one person there that you simply dont like, or cant be around, you have never met them or even seen them before, what is that? well there is more than one explanation, obviously the past life theory applies to, except you will find that the circumstances of your previous life or lives together would have more to do with something a bit more sinister. Perhaps they killed or harmed you or people close to you in another life, or they were somehow responsible for deeply hurting you in some way. We cant really know, but when you feel something as strong as revulsion, thats your higher self telling you something. I say listen, unless of course its your head getting involved, you’ll know the difference by the tone of the feeling, if you walk into work and hate your boss because she is dealing out grief, thats different, thats a mind response, an instant and strong attraction or repulsion to someone is completely different.
In the past I used to try to talk myself out of it when I’d feel repelled by someone, its not very well mannered to just want to run far away from someone you havent met before right?
But ive learnt now that everytime I’ve gone against my inner knowing I’ve regretted it, that feeling is always right! So, check it out next time you have the experience, trust it, and if your interested you can always do some past life research of your own.
In the meantime, I send lots of blessings your way, and hope that those bold and the beautiful moments keep on coming, for all of us!!
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